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Sep. 19, 2010
And the blogs keep on coming!
I’m sure at this point, you’re probably quite sick of these rapid fire blogs. I mean, I just did one on Aug. 3 and now, another one already. I know how to churn ‘em out baby!
Actually, I trust you have memorized everything that was in the Aug. 3 blog, so I’m not even going to put it on file with the past blogs.
Hopefully I am back and blogging a little more frequently, so let’s start with a few observations.
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First off, how great will the Oct. 24 Mercer County Soccer Hall of Fame banquet be for Steinert fans from the 1970s and 1980s?
A total of 10 former Spartans (from just three families!) will be inducted that night, highlighted by the entire Fink family.
One of the most unique clans in high school sports – not only in Hamilton, but the state of New Jersey – all seven Fink brothers played soccer for Steinert during the absolute glory years of the boys’ program. They were not only great players, but each possesses an indefinable sense of humor that can only be described as “Classic Fink Wit.”
And they look a lot alike too, as witnessed by any banquet you go to where they are in attendance.
“Who’s that, Bird?”
“No, it’s Tommy.”
“I thought that guy was Tommy.”
“No, that’s John.”
“Damn! OK. . .John, is that the one they call Himer?”
“No, Himer is Jim, he’s the oldest. John is Sid.”
“Who’s Hessian? Didn’t he used to be called Clubber?”
“Go get a beer and leave me alone.”
And on it would go. Unless you grew up with them, you really couldn’t keep them, or their nicknames, straight.
Of course, the other set of brothers getting in are also tough to tell apart, since they are twins. I’m talking of course, about Jim and John Bowen, two of the classiest acts to ever wear the Green and White.
They were outstanding athletes in soccer and baseball – and key members of state champion teams in both – and always conducted themselves (and still do) as complete gentleman. Despite their status at Steinert and Princeton University, they have always remained humble, polite and respectful to others. And despite those qualities, they’re not even boring!
Finally, the “solo” act is Mike Rasimowicz, one of the big stars near the beginning of Steinert’s two-decade run as a Mercer County dynasty. If Rasimowicz gets the same fan club at the Mercer HOF inductions as he got at Steinert’s HOF, get your tickets now or that crew will snap them all up.
It should be one heck of a night at the Hibos.
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Nottingham’s football team caught a bad break when Thursday’s game at Hightstown was moved to Monday night because of lightning. That means the Northstars will have to play Hamilton Saturday with just four days rest, while the Hornets will have enjoyed eight days off.
Throw in the fact the Northstars staged the greatest comeback in school history in last year’s win, and you know Hamilton has tons of motivation for revenge.
Either way, this still shapes up as a classic. Too bad it’s this early in the season, but, oh well.
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I swear, the Nostalgia Page is coming back. I just have to find time to get to the library again!
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Belated thanks to Rick “Web Master” Taylor, the Voice of the Northstars, for his help on opening-day of the football season in getting the word out on Fish4Scores. And of course, Mike “Stinger” Hastings gets kudos as well at Steinert for his continued support.
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For those who enjoy Mediterranean food, there’s a place on Olden Ave. that has opened within the past year called El Sham, that is really good. Great ka-bobs and grape leaves and all that cool stuff you can’t really find around here.
It’s located in a strip mall on the left, just before the light where Arena merges into Olden. I don’t know the owner and he’s not a sponsor. I just like the place and want it to do well so I can keep getting food from there.
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Went to SeptemberFest today. Another winner. That really is a nice event each year . . . Currently watching the Colts-Giants game as I type this. It’s 24-0 and boring as hell. Please, no more Manning Bowls. The hype ain’t worth it and I’m sick of Archie . . . If there is a better guy than ComcastSportsNet’s Ray Didinger at breaking down a football game – without first having to talk to a coach – I’ve yet to see him . . . Greetings to Fawny in Texas, who still checks in with Fish4Scores on occasion. We love having a presence in the state that does everything big. Sorry about the Cowboys Fawn. :)
July 24, 2010
Random thoughts on a red hot weekend
It’s gonna be a zillion degrees today from what a I hear. A good day to sit in the air conditioning and read this meandering blog. And make no mistake, it does meander.
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First things first.
I am going to Camden Yards to take in the Orioles game today and the Baltimore night life tonight. At first I was in a tizzy of how we could post all the Babe Ruth and legion stuff in my absence.
Thus, my advance “thank yous” go out to our videographer/photographer/writer extraordinaire Ken Weingartner, who is going to cover and attempt to post today’s action. So I thank Ken and hope the followers of this site appreciate his efforts. Not only today, but every day. Ken and photographer John Blaine have been unbelievable during our summer surge in visitors.
Not to be left out are the legendary O'Gorman cousins, Joe and George, who have been a big help with Babe Ruth information. Thanks guys!
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Looks like former Hamilton West baseball standout Ryan Zegarski is tapping his alma mater’s old rival pretty effectively in order to improve the Mercer County Community College softball team.
The MCCC manager, who got the Vikings to the national tournament this spring, procured Steinert catcher Angela Marinos before the high school season was out. Just recently he added Lauren Manfredi to next year’s team. They were two of the top players on Steinert’s Mercer County Tournament champion.
What’s interesting is, Zegarski has reportedly told Manfredi she will be a pitcher for him. Manfredi had been a standout hurler until her last few years at Steinert, but it appears she and Marinos will be batterymates once again after spending their senior seasons at shortstop and first base. Should be interesting.
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I’m a week late with this, but last Sunday’s Nottingham-Hamilton 15-year-old Babe Ruth battles were outstanding.
I’m not a big fan of tournaments where the top two teams advance to the next round, because it takes away that drama of “finality.” Yes, I know teams are playing for a District One title and it’s a championship and it’s a big deal.
But when the team that loses is also told its season is done, that to me makes it a little more exciting. You’re not only playing for a title, but a chance to move on. No safety net. Win or go home. Pressure adds excitement.
That being said, when it’s Nottingham and Hamilton, all those things go out the window. They really do play for pride and bragging rights. Those two clawed at each other last Sunday at Switlik like life itself was on the line, even though both were guaranteed a spot in the states. They never disappoint. It’s pretty cool.
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Has anybody ever won anything?
I’m talking about radio contests. I just heard someone win a trip to Cancun on a radio station and the guy kept going “This is great. I’ve never won anything in my life.” Like he’s proud of it.
Has anyone ever said anything different?
Have you ever heard someone win a contest and then go “Yeah, this figures. I always win this stuff. I win all the time. I’m not excited by this at all.”
Seemingly, every winner never won anything in their life. So I guess the rule is, when you win, you can never win again. Lotsa losers out there.
Wouldn’t you think I’d have enough to concern myself with, than to worry about that?
Talk about a loser huh?
July 14, 2010
How ‘bout those Hurricanes!
Anyone who has watched a Joe Pesci/Robert DeNiro movie has eventually heard the phrase – albeit somewhat saltier – “are you freakin’ kiddin’ me!”
When Bob Fremgen sent in the report on Monday about the HGSA 18U team winning the War at the Shore, I uttered that same phrase, albeit somewhat saltier.
As if Sunday was not incredible enough for the Hamilton Girls Softball Association, when the 8U, 10U and 12U teams all won Southern New Jersey Babe Ruth titles, add to it what the 18s did.
After a sub-par Saturday in which they went 2-2, the oldest Hurricanes won five straight games on Sunday against teams seeded much higher than them in the final round.
Is this program impressive from top to bottom, or what?
After spending a weekend at the HGSA complex covering the 12s and keeping tabs on the 10s, I can see why. It has good fan support (though I could have done without the World Cup horn in center field, lol), a great snack shack, league officials who make sure things run smoothly and coaches who care about getting their kids positive publicity.
In this, our first year of Fish4Scores.com, the HGSA coaches have been outstanding in supplying us with photos and tournament reports. I can only hope this will serve as an example for other rec leagues when fall sports start up (for you HGSA coaches or parents whose kids play fall sports, start spreading the word!).
Visits to the website have been steadily rising and your contributions helped us set a new single-day record with 433 visits on Monday. That got me excited until I saw that we smashed that record with 502 visits on Tuesday.
Of course, District 12 Little League and Babe Ruth are helping immensely, but when a team wins four championships in one day, that’s gonna draw a crowd.
And while the infrastructure of HGSA has much to do with its success, it still comes down to the players and coaches. They are good. Really good.
For veteran HGSA followers I’m writing nothing new here, But for folks who haven’t seen these teams play – like me, before this year, -- its good, solid, entertaining softball.
The 12Us won with great fundamentals and dominated every opponent in the SNJ Tournament. The 10Us won with guts and tenacity, mounting several comebacks. I don’t know how the 8Us won because I didn’t see them, but I’m sure it was good stuff.
As for the 18Us, I didn’t see them at the Shore, but I’ve seen most of them play in high school so their stellar effort did not surprise me.
It was just a great day for a great program.
And I ain’t freakin’ kiddin’ youse.
July 7, 2010
Congratulations G, you’ve earned it
I’ve told the story so many times Rich Giallella wants to beat me over the head with it, so I’ll give the Reader’s Digest version here.
We first met when he was playing for the Reading Phillies and was a speaker at our little league banquet. I was in third grade, he yelled at me for making fun of a teammate and I was scared of him for the next 15 years.
Then I started covering his Steinert baseball teams. Then we became friends. That escalated to good friends, of which he has many.
Of course, that friendship gets tested each year when I invite too many people to the Annual Christmas Eve Club (and have been, for a long time). In fact, with his free time, club members now wonder what is in store for us.
“I hadn’t thought about it,” said John Wagner, Giallella’s long-time friend. “It’s kind of scary to think the club might be turned upside down with him having more time to deal with it now.”
Either way, I’m happy for my friend today, that he is able to retire in good health and has a lot to look forward to in retirement. (Wife Kathy, on the other hand, may have other ideas. . .lol).
I’m not naïve enough to think that the world loves the G-Man. His excitable personality and competitiveness rubbed some people the wrong way over the years. But most people who know him, call him their friend.
He has certainly been a friend to Steinert athletics, first as a player and coach, and these last 10 years as an athletic director.
I laugh at the cynics who say he had hidden agendas in taking the job way back when (that are not even worth going into now).
If he did, so be it. But guess what, nobody sticks around in a job like that, for 10 years, just to fulfill an agenda. Anyone who has spent time with Giallella at a Steinert game knows that this guy is passionate about Spartan sports.
Giallella cared so much, he even impressed The Trentonian’s Rick Fortenbaugh, who is as cynical as it gets.
give Richie G credit,” Fortenbaugh would say. “You rarely see ADs that want every one of their teams to win the way he does. He’s always out there supporting them.”
What made me laugh while interviewing Giallella for his retirement story, is when he said “I’ll help out, but now I don’t have to be forced to go to games, I can just go to games when I want.”
He’ll be at games. A LOT of games. He may have felt forced, but once he got there, he was like any other fan. Actually, more intense than most.
“He’s an athletic junkie, he really is,” said Wagner, a former AD at Hightstown. “Every time I talk to him he’s always at a Steinert game. He’s always doing something with sports. That job can be a little taxing but he seemed to enjoy it and seemed to relish it.”
It’s not an easy job. It's harder now then when Giallella took over, which likely played into his decision. There are booster clubs to deal with, and coaches, officials, rowdy fans, other athletic directors, people from the NJSIAA. And more and more, it’s parents who go over a coach’s head to complain to an AD.
It’s a lot for anyone to endure, but Giallella did it with a passion and now feels the time is right.
Steinert athletics may get worse or they may get better, but they will never be the same.
Things never are, when one-of-a-kind moves on.
July 2, 2010
Congrats to gridders, good luck to Brescia
It was great to see so many kids from Hamilton Township do well in last night’s Sunshine Classic. What was really great is that the guys who represented the township are not only good players but good guys.
I’ve probably dealt with Jordan Diaz, Mark Newlin and Dan Danaso the most out of all of them, and you won’t meet nicer guys. Always courteous and well spoken with interesting things to say, they are the right kind of guys you want to symbolize your school.
That’s not to count out the other players in the game. I’ve dealt with Shaq Sanderson, Pat Ferrara, Nick Maciolek and Mike Garofola on several occasions and they too, have always been a pleasure to talk with. It’s a credit to these players, their parents and their coaches.
Speaking of coaches, seeing Pete Brescia on the sidelines last night was my first chance to congratulate him on his new job as Hightstown High coach.
Son of the Steinert Hall of Fame football coach of the same name, I wish Pete all the luck as he attempts to revive the Rams.
I first met the lifelong Hamilton resident in 1978 when he worked at the playground at Kuser Tennis Courts and I was working for the township’s park security department while home from college for the summer (lots of stolen pails and shovels and lots of crime in the parks that summer, by the way). He was a good kid then and a good man now.
Yes, he went to Notre Dame, but we won’t hold that against him. lol. He came back and coached at Steinert for the past few years and will now move on to a new chapter in his life. Pete seems fired up for the chance and even more fired up to join Hightstown’s legendary “Club”, which serves as a proud sponsor for Fish4Scores and is also excited over the election of it's new treasurer.
So good luck in college to all the guys who played so well last night, and good luck to Pete at Hightstown. It’s always nice to see good men do good.
June 26
Little League just getting more nuts
The contrast at Bordentown’s Northern Community Park today was as stark as you could get.
Inside the fence, on the playing field, was what Little League should be about.
Outside the fence is what Little League has become.
It was beautiful and slimy all at once.
There’s a major controversy brewing over a 12-year-old kid named Luca Dalatri, who is playing for Bordentown and who pitched a one-hitter in a 1-0 loss to Nottingham today.
Dalatri and Matthew Tola locked into an unbelievable District 12 pitcher’s duel. It was fun to watch. It made people nervous, mad, happy and everything in between.
It should have been what the day was all about and, for the most part, it was.
But outside the fence, people from North Wall were handing out fliers to Nottingham supporters, encouraging them to protest the game and force a possible forfeit loss by Bordentown or possible disqualification of Dalatri.
In a nutshell, North Wall Little League is accusing the parent of a Bordentown player of renting a room illegally to Dalatri and his father so that Dalatri can play with Bordentown’s 12-year-old All-Stars. I’m not sure why he is not playing with North Wall but evidently there was some falling out there, even though his brothers are still in the league.
I don’t have all the facts in this situation so I’m not going to say who is right or wrong as far as the legal issues go.
I have heard that people from Nottingham were upset about Dalatri and were making their thoughts known to the district. I don’t know the extent of that, or if there is anything to it. District 12 has apparently given Dalatri the green light.
But that isn’t my concern. Nor was it the concern of NLL 12-year-old manager Anthony Francioso, who met with Dalatri and his manager at home plate after the game and complimented the hurler on his effort.
“I think it’s a shame that a 12-year-old kid is trying to pitch in a game, and you have people protesting against him at the game,” Francioso said. “I felt bad for him and I wanted him to know he did a great job. You’re protesting against a kid? C’mon!”
And that friends, is what this is all about.
I repeat – I do not pretend to have all the facts nor will I look into them. Other than this one-time blog, I’ve got better things to do than publicize grown-ups behaving like kids.
That being said, I can’t accuse anybody. Nor am I blaming anybody. Or maybe I’m blaming everybody.
I just agree with Francioso. This kid didn’t deserve today.
It’s nuts what has become of Little League baseball. It’s hardly the first controversy around here and it won’t be the last, but this is crazy.
Somebody who should know better has wronged Dalatri. He’s a kid. There have to be grown-up forces at work.
I couldn’t even imagine being 12, pitching in an all-star game and having adults handing out literature to other adults trying to get me off the team. (Actually, I stunk, so I couldn’t imagine being 12 and pitching in an all-star game at all. The protest would have been to let me on the team).
Anyway, Little League has advanced to great heights and that’s great. Media coverage is like never before with ESPN in the act.
But with higher stakes come bigger jerks.
I don’t know who the exact jerks are in this case.
Whoever they are, shame on them for turning something so good into something so ridiculous.
June 21
Congratulations township grads!
Just want to pass along a quick congratulations to the seniors of Hamilton West, Nottingham and Steinert who are graduating tonight. These congratulations go to all the students, athletes or not.
But I would be remiss if special congrats did not go out to those of you who I know from covering your athletic exploits over the years. Some of you I've known for a while, some I just met this year. You all share a special place for me as the first senior class to be covered by Fish4Scores, and most of you were true class acts.
You're all to be commended for doing the work on the field and in the classroom. Graduation is a big step in your lives and now it's on to the next level.
For those playing sports in college, best of luck and keep Fish4Scores posted of your exploits. When the sports information director hands out your information sheet, make sure richfisher@fish4scores.com is listed along with the Trentonian and Trenton Times.
As for the guy heading to a school that is 70 percent female population, make sure you invite your high school buddies out for at least one weekend!
For the rest of you, enjoy your time in college as it is often the best years of a person's life. Just remember the most important thing -- keep a balance between socializing and academics, or you'll be hiding those transcripts from your parents!
And for those going right into the work force, let me know where to contact you when I need a loan! lol.
But seriously, congratulations to all and I wish everyone from the class of 2010 the best of luck. Go get 'em!
June 18/Part 2
What a difference five hours makes
At 11:30 a.m. all I could think about was how the U.S. got screwed in the World Cup (see below). I could have cared less that we became the first team in Cup history to get a point after trailing by two goals. I figured it would mean nothing after England won.
At 4:30, I’m suddenly all fired up about the U.S. comeback. I’m thrilled they made history. Because it means something now.
The way I figure it, if we beat Algeria, we get five points. If England wins, they have five and Slovenia had four, so we’re in. If Slovenia wins, they have seven but we’re second with five.
And now you gotta wonder. What the heck is going on with England?
Either way, their poor play has kept my interest alive for at least one more game.
(Sorry all my soccer friends, but I will lose interest if U.S. is beaten).
June 18
World Cup call is absolute rubbish
It might not be a date which will live in infamy, but the United States certainly was the victim of another sneak attack today.
This one came from the World Cup official who shockingly disallowed what would have been the game-winning goal for the U.S. against Slovenia. And then, he gave no explanation to the U.S. as to WHY the goal was taken away. I’m watching Landon Donovan on ESPN right now, and he almost seems dazed.
Replays showed that not only was there no foul or offsides on Maurice Edu's apparent goal, but that Michael Bradley was held and should have gotten a penalty shot. Instead, we got nothing and end up with a tie.
The question is, how can the biggest event in the freaking world, have officials this incompetent? Players are expected to be at the top of their game, so too should officials. How can such a horrible call be made at such a key time?
Donovan said it was this official’s first game and he might have gotten caught up in the moment. That might be plausible, if it was a borderline call. But there was nothing there to call. It’s insane.
It totally takes the shine off what was an amazing comeback by the U.S., which rallied from a 2-0 deficit to tie the game. We should have won the game, plain and simple.
I feel the same way now, as I did in 1972 when the officials gave Russia’s basketball team three chances before they finally won the Olympic semifinal over America.
On the other side of the coin, it brings one big fact to light – you have to play well enough to make sure a bad call doesn’t cost you. The U.S. did not do that. It played a poor first half and it cost them.
It shouldn’t have, but it did. And it’s a shame that America did enough to overcome the bad start, but the final score won’t show that.
Now, a lot of things need to happen for U.S. to advance.
We wait and see.
As they say in England. . .rubbish.
June 11
Steinert has hosted a U.S World Cup star
As we count down the hours until tomorrow’s U.S.-England game to kick off America’s participation in the World Cup, I would like to reveal a little known fact that might be of interest to Hamilton Township residents.
Back in the mid-1990’s, Steinert had a powerhouse basketball team led by Dahntay Jones. During that stretch, in either 1995 or ’96, I can’t remember the exact year, Steinert hosted a Central Jersey Group IV basketball semifinal.
The opponent was North Brunswick, whose guard was a young sophomore more known for his soccer talent. At the time, he was a high-scoring midfielder. His name was – and still is – Tim Howard, the starting goalie for the U.S. tomorrow.
Just think about it for a second.
In one game, you had a future NBA player on one team, and the future U.S. starting goalie in the World Cup on the other. Not to mention a one-time goalie for Manchester United.
That, my friends, is pretty cool.
And pretty darn rare in these parts.
June 4, 2010
To err is human, to admit it is cool
This whole Jim Joyce thing has been fascinating to watch.
Here’s a guy who blows one of the biggest calls ever, and he’s being treated like royalty.
And you know what? He deserves to be.
One thing people fail to realize about perfect games is, not only does the pitcher need to be perfect, so too do the fielders. . . and the umpires.
Jim Joyce wasn’t perfect.
But he admitted it.
The whole thing has been surreal considering the aftermath.
Joyce admitting his mistake in a day and age of brash umpires who won’t admit to spelling cat wrong even after their signature of “kat” is verified by handwriting experts. Then you have Tigers pitcher Armando Galarraga, who lost the perfect game, taking the whole thing so gracefully when some guys would be calling their lawyers to imply about law suits.
In some twisted way, this is actually a positive. Forget about the whole controversy over instant replay and all that stuff. That’s secondary.
This is about everybody understanding that ‘Hey, it happens, we’re human.’ Joyce was incredibly humble and sympathetic in his apology, Galarraga was even more so in his acceptance of it all, and the Tiger fans were first class in their applause.
That’s what happens when someone is man enough to not just say ‘I’m wrong,’ but to show regret in doing so.
It’s not hard to gain, or regain, America’s respect. It just takes some humility.
Barry Bonds and Roger Clemens are scoffed at because they refuse to ‘fess up about steroids. Andy Pettite and Jason Giambi are afterthoughts on the whole thing because they said ‘Yup, we did it.’
Had Bill Clinton said ‘Yes, Monica Lewinsky and I were inappropriate’ and showed just a little remorse, things probably would never have been so bad for him.
The point is, we’re all mere mortals. Some of us are elevated into spots where we have to be immortal.
It’s just nice to see someone not only admit they are not (especially an ML umpire), but to feel so terrible about being merely human.
There’s no need to feel bad about being human, as long as you admit to it.
May 12
Get well soon Ange
The second I heard of the severity of Angela Marinos’ ankle injury, I bummed out.
Injuries happen, but you never want to see them no matter who it is.
And you really hate seeing them hit one of the top players in her area when the most fun part of the season is coming up.
But what you hate most, is seeing them happen to a great kid.
Marinos fits the bill on all of the above.
The Steinert senior is one of Mercer County’s best hitters and catchers, even though she unselfishly moved to first base to help her team this year. She is also a friendly, refreshing young lady, always quick to smile and bring a good mood to those around her.
That’s not just me talking.
“She’s a really good kid,” said Mike Belmont, uncle of Spartan soccer/basketball standout Jess Belmont. “She’s been over the house a few times. We all love her.”
And you really know she’s a class act when praise comes from the enemy.
“That’s just horrible to happen to a kid like that,” said Nottingham coach Mike Walsh, who endured his own serious loss when veteran second baseman Lindsay Buckley suffered a season-ending injury against Steinert two weeks ago.
“What a great kid,” added Tara Lavin, the aunt of Nottingham pitcher Kim Murl, who watched Marinos grow up in the HGSA. “She does whatever she needs to do for her team, and she’s just a kid everybody likes.”
That’s why I bummed so quickly when learning Marinos would miss at least two weeks.
It’s not about the player, but the person. She’s a person you like to see succeed because of that spunky personality.
Actually, in this case it’s also about the player. Were this injury to occur in April, that would stink but not be awful.
But Marinos is missing the Mercer County Tournament semifinals and finals, and at least a week of state tournament games provided Steinert gets that far. Those are the games great athletes want to play in. The best want to make their teams the best by beating the best.
Marinos can now just watch.
But she even does that well.
She showed up at Armstrong Field with her teammates Tuesday night, bouncing off the bus (as much as one on crutches can bounce) with a smile and a laugh. She encouraged teammates and was a darn good cheerleader in the dugout.
Her presence was felt, just in a different way.
Still, it was a positive way.
That’s what Angela Marinos is all about. Positive vibes.
Get well soon Ange. Those vibes belong on the field.
May 9
Happy Mother's Day mom!
Well, it's Mother's Day, so first and foremost I want to wish my mom and Happy Mother's Day, along with my Aunt Phyllis, who is like a second mom to me!
And because my mom, more than anyone else, wants me to blog, I am blogging this one especially for her, even though she won't see it til Monday. But, one day late, Happy Mother's Day mom, I love ya!!!
April 30
I'm a mess
Well, I haven't blogged in 18 days and I haven't updated the Nostalgia Page since April 10. That's not by design, it's just that April is a ridiculously busy month for sports and so too is May. So forgive me for being so far behind, especially on Nostagia. I'm just a mess.
But a few thoughts as I wait for my internet company to fix my "publish" options. In case you don't know, I sit here at 1:30 a.m. Friday morning with all kind of stuff from Thursday's activity on the website, but because I'm unable to publish, you can't see any of it. Then again, by the time you see this, you'll see all the rest of the stuff. So why am I even telling you this.
Cos I'm a mess maybe?
Anyway:
---Congratulations to Bob Hutchinson for getting the O'Shea Award this Sunday. There's not a better guy out there. Easy going and competitive all at once, Hutch has always been a class act.
Also congrats to Steinert's Dana Jeter for winning the Renee Keister award. I don't know Renee Keister personally but the former McCorristin basketball standout is one of the most amazing people I know about.
A beautiful girl and talented basketball player who became paralyzed by an accident while still in high school, Renee could have felt sorry for herself after seemingly losing everything. She could have had a bitter "Why Me?" life and crawled into a dark place. But she built a life, a career and a family.
That, friends, is one of the best definitions of courage, determination and inspiration that there is.
---It's nice that the U.S. National team is coming to Princeton University to train in June before the World Cup starts, but it's not exciting really, because with closed practices they might as well be practicing in North Dakota for all it matters.
Of course, the practices must be closed so players can focus. But it would be nice if somehow Bob Bradley and his alma mater could come up with an hour or so of open workouts, where players can put on a show and sign a few autographs. But, we'll see.
----Speaking of what would be nice, more night softball games at the HGSA complex would be pretty cool. It would be great if the township round robin games all took place there, but I have no idea of the availability. Afterall, HGSA does have their own games to worry about.
---Here's a shout-out for the Hamilton West lacrosse teams, which are on the short end of a lot of bad beatings this year. Keep hanging tough guys and girls and keep plugging away. You're on the ground floor of something that could get big in the future and you can take pride in getting it started.
April 12
The right man won
The script is too good to be true.
The man who sticks by his wife as she battles breast cancer, the man who has always been a class act and a true famly man, wins the Masters.
The guy who was so utterly scummy to his wife didn't.
There's nothing more to write. It was just great.
Wait, there is one more thing.
I used to be indifferent toward the man who apparently invented golf (and re-invented the libido), other than hating the way broadcasters gushed over him. But after his utter dirt bag behavior and these well-crafted, spin doctor apologies, and that completely disgraceful Nike commercial with his late father's voice-over, I hope he never wins again.
And now, he probably won't. It's one thing to put the shame and humiliation of sexual indisgression behind you. But when you're snubbed by a high-powered media outlet like Fish4Scores, which captures an audience all the way from Bromley to Groveville. . .well, you've pretty much had it.
April 5
A banner day for Eagles PR machine
The Donovan McNabb trade is already successful for the Eagles.
For the past two years, Joe Banner has despised the Phillies for stealing the Eagles thunder. He seems to have a problem with fans wanting to follow a team that actually wins championships rather than comes close.
But the timing of this trade could not have come at a better time for Eagles public relations.
All winter long the Philadelphia fans have salivated at Roy Halladay’s first start in a Phillies uniform. On a normal day, the morning sportscasts would be blaring about Halliday’s debut.
Instead, it’s been shoved beneath a mountain of McNabb. Not sure if that was part of the plan – probably not – but it’s obviously a tremendous piece of good timing for the Eagles.
Now, when the actual NFL games start, it will be a little different.
This trade has shocked the world, if only because McNabb has gone to a team that will play Philly twice a year. And that will, indeed, be interesting.
If anything, McNabb has shown a penchant for coming up short in games that mean a lot. Can you even imagine him coming into Philadelphia, a place where his relationship has been nothing short of bizarre considering the love and hate he gets from there.
Will he show the fans they were wrong and have a huge game? Or will he choke it up as has been his custom.
Time will tell.
But I have to imagine that right now, Joe Banner is sitting in his office quite smug. The team that he hates, maybe as much as the Cowboys themselves, has been completely knocked from the public eye in Philadelphia, in what should be a major Phillies moment.
Oh, and by the way, the NCAA championship game is tonight.
March 20
A fish out of (pool) water and happy to be so
The unthinkable has happened.
For the first time since 1980, I am not in an NCAA pool. Through a series of misadventures, somehow I just never got hooked up.
But if ever there were a year not to be part of the Madness, it’s this one.
Well, considering my success, or lack thereof, it’s every one. But for ulcer reasons, this is a really good year to be on dry land.
It didn’t start that way.
As I began to watch the early games Thursday, I sat there and had this strange feeling of nothingness come over me. Teams I cared nothing about were playing and I had no rooting interest.
It was not unlike drinking non-alcoholic beer. What’s the sense?
But in about three hours my entire thought process had changed. The games were nothing short of incredible. Friday didn’t quite live up to Thursday, but not much could live up to that.
The best part is, when you have no rooting interest, I’ve discovered that these pulsating games can be a lot of fun. I’m not hunched over, holding my stomach, whispering into the floor “c’mon c’mon c’mon!” I’m not grabbing the nearest pillow and mis-shaping it 30 times as some 19-year-old kid stands on the foul line -- who I mean nothing to -- and holds a little bit of my fate in his hands.
I’m just sitting here going “Wow!” “Wow!” “Wow!” I love the upsets now.
It’s refreshing, if only because I can watch the highlights 15 years from now and go “awww yeah, I remember that.” and actually enjoy it.
I still haven’t watched one second of Villanova’s 1985 win over Georgetown. Sparing you the math, I entered the Final Four with a chance to win if Georgetown and Memphis State reached in the finals.
But first ‘Nova beat Memphis, then it beat Georgetown, and I ended up tied for third. That’s akin to “OK, here’s your entry fee money back.” While the world raves over “The Perfect Game” I still despise it. It cost me a lot and I’m still bitter 25 years later.
Then there was Christian Laettner’s miracle shot.
Another quick explanation. If Kentucky-Indiana reached the finals that year I would win. Laettner hit his shot, I ended up sliding down the pool to “Thanks, try again next year.”
That was a mere 18 years ago and once again, I can’t watch it. It sickens me and it is one of the truly great moments in sports.
And as we know, they show those ‘Nova and Laettner highlights A LOT.
Ugh.
So this year, I am free of the demons. I am gleeful at the upsets and the close games and I don’t throw things at the TV or kick the cats’ food dish.
Order me up another O’Doul’s. I like it!
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Some other NCAA Tournament thoughts:
When someone asks you how you’re doing in your pool, don’t even answer. It’s just their way of telling you how they’re doing in their pool. They’ll give you about 18 seconds to explain something and as soon as you hit on the right game, they’ll go “Oh yeah, ODU killed me too. I had Notre Dame. . .blahh, blaaah.”
And from that point on, they’re talking about their pool.
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Does anyone know when the Masters is? They never seem to promote it during these games.
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What's the rule? When someone says a higher seed, do they mean the higher number (like 16) or the higher status (like 1)? Everyone seems to have a different take on that.
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How about the Philly talk show hosts who were absolutely indignant over Temple’s 5th seed? They were just laughing at Cornell being the fashionable pick, saying no way could the Owls lose.
They never took into consideration that running roughshod through the A-10 tournament is no great shakes. As always, Xavier is the one Atlantic 10 team that seems to rise above it all come NCAA time. Must be all that Skyline Chili they eat.
See you at the Trenton St. Paddy's Day Parade. I'll be wearing the Fish4Scores shirt!
March 16
LOL Part 2: With a Texas accent
Well, we're pleased to say that Fish4Scores has drawn a following somewhere in Texas. Well, one person, at least.
We received an e-mail from "FawnyInTexas" who said she never uses LOL and wonders why anyone would want to defuse a good insult with an LOL. We couldn't agree more.
She also said she has taken our blog to heart and when speaking cyber-talk to people now, will either say LWY (Laughing With You) or LAY (Laughing At You). That makes pretty good sense to us here in Jersey Fawny, so I will pass it along.
And please pass along our best to all the Texas teams in the NCAA Men's Basketball Tournament, since we have none here in Jersey.
Mar. 11
"LOL" has lost its meaning. . .if it ever had it to begin with
Let’s talk “lol.”
You’re sitting at the computer e-mailing or IMing someone, or you’re on the phone texting or twittering (You’re never talking. Talk is no longer cheap, it’s obsolete).
Anyway, you’re communicating and, inevitably, you’re writing “lol.” And, so is the other person.
Neither of you have even smiled during the exchange, let alone laughed out loud.
(Let’s not even get into “lmao” or “rofl”. . .no one has yet to lose an ass from laughing, and no one has ever fallen off their chair and rolled around on the floor laughing, all the while being able to type “rofl” as they’re doing it.)
I took a poll at a party recently; maybe 7 or 8 people. But it was unanimous. No one is laughing out loud. No one! And no one ever did.
Face it, lol mostly represents things that have nothing to do with laughing, let alone out loud.
It can be simple confirmation. You’re basically confirming that you’re only kidding. We have j/k for “just kidding,” but lol seems more popular. (That / key is hard to find on the keyboard sometimes.)
It could also be a form of nervous laughter. You make fun of someone, but you’re not sure if they know it’s a joke or not, so you lol them cuz you think they’re stupid.
“Yeah, I’m sure she thought a lot of you when you wore that ugly shirt today. lol.”
Or, it’s a way to save face. Like when a guy writes to a girl “Maybe we can go out some time.” Then there’s no response for like, 3 seconds, and the guy quickly writes “LOL!” in all caps.
That’s the classic lol. “Of course I don’t really want to go out! Why, I’m laughing out loud at the mere idea!” You can feel the sweat dripping off the lol in that one.
It’s also a subconscious way to just shut someone up. They go on a long tangent that you could care less about. You have no reply, so you just automatically type “lol” with nothing else, and they know it’s over. They’ve lost you.
There is nothing that says “you bore me” or “we’re done here” better than that stand-alone lol. How many times is that followed by “Phone, gotta go.”
Lol doesn’t really bother me. I’m guilty of it often (mostly on that latter example).
But I’m thinking of changing. Sometimes, we actually do chuckle lightly, or smile at something someone writes, or that we write.
So, perhaps we should put “ltm”. . .laughing to myself. Or just “s” for smiling. I actually tried this with a friend once. It worked for about 2 days, then the lol gods sucked us up again like an Oz-bound tornado.
One good thing, I haven’t actually started saying it yet. But isn’t that the purpose, to be “out loud”?
Wouldn’t that be interesting? Just think if lol became the way to verbally communicate laughing out loud.
A stand-up comedian is on stage and he’s a riot. He’s at the peak of his comic genius. But instead of being greeted by raucous laughter, there’s this murmur of “lol” with smiles and nods filtering throughout the room.
When he (or she) really kills, you start hearing a buzz of “lmao” or “rofl” with people nudging each other and nodding and grinning all over the place.
During the so-so jokes that don’t deserve lol, people can just hold up signs that say *smile* or ::smile::, depending on what side of the tracks you come from.
And if the guy (or girl) stinks, you just have one person stand up and say “lol” and the comic will know “I’m done here.”
So too, am I.
Can you tell by this blog, that we’re between sports seasons?
Lol.
Mar. 7
Let's go Nets!
As a lifelong 76ers fan, I am watching with interest as the Nets attempt to break the infamous 9-73 mark Philadelphia set in 1972-73.
Many Sixers fans are rooting for the Nets to break the mark, but not me.
I am proud to say I attended two games that year, so I kind of feel part of NBA lore. In fact, my dad and I went to what once was an annual event in Trenton – the Kiwanis Classic played at the Trenton Civic Center.
That was a preseason game between the Sixers and Knicks, and former Knick Dave DeBusschere once wrote in his book that the players had to use the same bathrooms as the fans at the Civic Center, which led to some pretty funny stories.
At the 1972 Kiwanis Classic, we got our first look up close and in person at new coach Roy Rubin, who the Sixers hired away from Long Island University. One Philly writer called him Roy "Who?bin".
Wow was he bad. He never coached, he just moaned at the refs constantly, and would yell “Ohhhhhh!” like he was shot, every time a call went against him.
We thought after witnessing a Knicks victory that night, it would be a long season.
We had no idea.
That team was so awful, that it became like the classic bad auto accident. You just had to look.
The funny thing is, there were some decent players on board, although Hall of Fame guard Hal Greer retired midway through the season before the whole ordeal squashed his legacy into oblivion. There were Kevin Loughery, Bill Bridges, Freddie Carter, Tom Van Arsdale and John Block, who had solid NBA careers.
But there were also guys named Don May, Dale Schlueter, Manny Leaks, Luther Green, Jeff Halliburton. . .the list goes on. There were a total of 19 players who saw time that year.
After starting 4-47 under Rubin – Ooohhhhh! --- Loughery was named player-coach and led Philly to a respectable 5-26 in the last 31 games. That’s how bad it was, 5-26 was respectable.
The 76ers were outscored by an average of 12 points per game that year. After starting 0-15, they beat the Houston Rockets in San Antonio by two points. Their next win was at Buffalo against the Braves – a first-year expansion team. The first home win didn’t come until Dec. 6 against the Kansas City-Omaha Kings.
Once Rubin was fired, Loughery’s five wins came within a two week period, when the Sixers went a mind boggling 5-2 from Feb. 14 to Feb. 28, with two two-game winning streaks!
Things were turning around.
But then they turned back.
The Sixers followed that binge with a 13-game losing streak to end the season and Loughery quickly booked for the ABA New York Nets and won championships with Julius Erving.
That ’72-73 team also had losing streaks of 14 and 20 games. So lets see, if you take out the 0-28 to start and end the season, the team was actually 9-45. Wow, that’s still really bad. There’s just no positive spin to put on this.
I can’t even remember who they played in the game I attended during the regular season. But I know they lost and I know center Leroy Ellis had like, 20 points or something.
It was one of a historic 73 losses.
And I’m proud to say I was part of that history.
Anyone can go see a winner. It takes true character to pay cash to see a true loser.
New Jersey need four more wins as of this writing, to keep the record safe.
Let’s go Nets!
Feb. 22
What’s better, great contests or great moments?
Last night’s U.S. hockey win over Canada got me thinking.
Every time the Olympics roll around, a stubborn core of fans refuse to watch the games because professionals now compete. They think this boycott might work, even though it’s been a pro gig for a long time now.
I used to think that way, but I’ve wilted.
For one thing, when it was amateurs only, it wasn’t really. We knew the Communist countries had their Olympic athletes training fulltime year-round.
Now that competitors can legally be professional, it basically comes down to what you enjoy more.
Do you want great contests, or great moments?
Granted, they could be one in the same. But often times, you need an uneven playing field to make a great moment.
Take hockey.
Today is the 30th Anniversary of the Miracle on Ice. I still get chills. It was incredible.
A young group of true amateur U.S. hockey players topple a Russian team that had won the last four gold medals (and would win the next two) and was considered unbeatable. It was like a No. 16 seed beating a No. 1 in the NCAA Tournament.
Throw in the fact the Russians were our one true hatred in between Hitler and Bin Laden, and it was just the greatest thing ever when the U.S. won on that memorable Friday night in Lake Placid.
That was a great moment.
But some so-so contests were littered among the earlier action. They were OK games, but the skill level was of an amateur level.
Then, 30 years-minus-one day later, we got a great game. And it was only a prelim.
It bordered on a great moment. The U.S. beating Canada is pretty significant.
But it wasn’t as remarkable as us beating the Russians because while that was Luke Skywalker besting Darth Vader, this was a case of two teams stocked with NHL players.
That’s what made it a great game.
We’ll never have that incredibly great moment like we did in 1980 because circumstances won’t dictate it. In its place, we’ll get a bunch of great games like last night.
The best players in hockey laying it all out for love of country. An ex- and current Devil teaming up for the fourth goal against the current Devils goalie, and a guy who plays for the Vancouver Canucks scoring the American empty netter in Vancouver.
The action was intense, U.S. goalie Ryan Miller was incredible.
It’s a game that wouldn’t have happened with amateurs.
Don't misunderstand, there will be great moments, they'll just be different.
So I can warm to the pros. Nothing will ever reach 1980 in my mind, because circumstances made that the perfect storm.
But I don’t care that Shaun White is a one-man corporation, or Tiger-bashing Lindsey Vonn is already a household name. That means nothing to me when they’re representing our country.
They are fun to watch and are giving a country that’s been beaten up in recent years something to take pride in.
Yes, the amateur aspect led to great back stories. The kid who worked in a circus at night so he could train during the day, the girl whose local Kiwanis Club raised money so she could compete.
They were compelling tales that led to great moments.
But when I watch the pros, they make for great showcases.
It’s taken over 10 years but, rather than complain, I've accepted what is presented.
I’m finding it’s not too bad.
Feb. 19
Bottom line: Tiger got caught
Well, the long-awaited "Tiger Speaks" has come and gone and the pundits are singing his praises.
Analysts from ESPN and The Golf Network are gushing over Tiger's remarks today about his infidelity. They say even though they were scripted, he seems repentant and ready to change.
Of course he does.
HE GOT CAUGHT!
Let me say, I'm not a huge Tiger fan, nor am I a Tiger basher. I do get tired of the media's constant obsession with him, pre- and post-escapades.
That being said, I'm sorry, I can't sit here and say "Ohhh yes, he seems repentant." Because to me, true repent comes from one's own conscious.
If this were a year ago, and he finally woke up one day and said "What the heck am I doing?" and took steps to correct things on his own, then I would be impressed.
But the bottom line is, he carved out this false image knowing what he was doing, and when the now legendary Thanksgiving accident took place it was over. The image was damaged and now the spin doctors are in action.
The guy has more to lose than any 100 of us put together could ever hope to have. This is serious damage control.
Because he got caught. Plain and simple.
Florists stay in business because guys get caught. "Please put on the card 'I am so sorry, I love you and this will never happen again.'"
Of course, it's easy for me to sit here and be all high and mighty. Would I come clean if I was a rich, powerful married guy who had every gorgeous woman in the world wanting to sleep with me? I'd like to think I would, but who knows?
Besides, that is the most moot point ever, cos last I looked out the window no super models were stalking me. There was the paper girl, but I think she just wanted her money.
Anyway, for the sake of Tiger's family and his kids and the guy himself, I hope he is seriously sorry and I hope this does turn things around. Especially for the kids, cos no kids deserve this.
But I can't be impressed about how sorry he is and I certainly can't gush about it. He did what he had to do, plain and simple. Not just him. Alex Rodriguez, Michael Vick, Mark McGwire, all of them.
These were damage control apologies first, and from-the-heart apoligies second. Because if they were truly from the heart, there wouldn't be damage control to begin with.
I'll leave you with the words of that famous millionaire philosopher, Thirston Howell III.
In one episode, there was a water shortage and they all distracted dumb Gilligan so they could steal water. The skipper found out of course, made them all put it back, and lined them up and lectured them. He ended by saying "Now aren't you all ashamed of yourselves?" They all nodded, and Mr. Howell whispered to Ginger "Yes, I'm ashamed we got caught."
He's not the only one.
Feb. 18
A good man finally at peace
We lost a good man today.
Tony Stella, who I’ve known since I was 10-years-old, succumbed to pancreatic cancer.
You may not know him, but a slew of kids who played Hamilton Little Lads Basketball sure do.
This was a guy who battled through a life tougher than most of us will ever see, but who never gave up. He was never giving up long before Jim Valvano made his legendary speech.
I first met Mr. Stella playing for the Hamilton YMCA Dodgers. His son, Tony, was my teammate and Mr. Stella was one of our coaches. I’ll never forget one game, when I was playing first base and leaped up and made a lucky catch on a line drive that preserved our pitcher Tom Venanzi’s no-hitter.
As I came to the bench, Mr. Stella came over to congratulate me. I was explaining how I thought it hit the tip of the glove and was gonna go into the outfield and that I never thought I’d get it and blah blah, and he just kept looking at me. Then he shook his head, crunched my hat with his hand and said “Just shut up and keep smiling.”
It didn’t seem like much, but 40 years later I still remember it. So it must have meant something.
Those were the good times.
A few years later, in the spring of 1972, Tony Jr. died tragically when he fell out of a carnival Ferris wheel.
Mr. Stella never had another son. But rather than hide from the memory of the one he lost, he faced it all head on.
A neighbor of Hamilton Little Lads director Jack DeStefano (the two were best friends), he took part in the league and worked with the boys. The memories of his own son had to eat at him, but he continued to donate his time and his soul.
“Even though he lost his son,” DeStefano said, “He still gave of himself to the youth of Hamilton.”
One would think Tony would be rewarded, but life kept throwing curveballs. He got a divorce, had a heart attack, ended up in a nursing home, and then got cancer.
No one deserves that, least of all a man who thought so much of others.
When the Little Lads decided to start a Sportsmanship Award, they naturally named it after Tony.
"It was only logical," said Tom Garafola, a league executive. "We had Tony come to our banquet and present the trophy to one of our players, Brian Laux. Tony who was in a wheel chair, was thrilled and you could see in his eyes the joy he had presenting Brian with that award."
It's typical, and not surprising. With so many setbacks that could diminish Tony's joy, he could still take pleasure in the happiness of others.
As sad as we all are he’s gone, if anyone deserves the peace he now has, it’s Tony Stella.
He’ll never go down as one of the famous sports heroes of Hamilton Township.
Feb. 8
Super Bowl viewers drown in the pool
Sooooooo, did ya watch the Super Bowl?
Did you hang on every call, every pass, every incompletion, every near-fumble?
You did?
Liar!
If you're like me (not all the time, God forbid, just in this situation), you sat there in the bar, or at your Super Bowl party, or all by yourself in your living room and you studied 100 blocks filled with names and nicknames of people, most of whom you don't know and some that you do.
You take your index finger, start at a number up top, trace it down to your name, look to the left at another number, and keep reminding yourself of what numbers you have. But then, you have to remember what team has that number.
"Wait. . .did I have the Colts with 8 or the Saints. . .damn! It was the Colts."
If you're lost at this point in the blog, then there's no sense even explaining the Super Bowl block pool to you. If you're with me, then you know of the obsessiveness of which I speak.
The Super Bowl block pool has completely changed the way we watch the big game.
If the New York teams or the Eagles aren't in it, you're not rooting for teams, you're rooting for situations. You look at your numbers. . .stare at them like you're trying to burn a hole through them with a laser beam, and start to figure it all out.
"Let's see. . .if the Colts score. . .then miss the extra point. . . if the Saints score, then go for two. . . if we can pin them and then get a safety. . . if they can hold twice and get two field goals . . .If we can kick an extra point without scoring a touchdown. . ."
You do this. You know you do. Everyone starts out by saying "Oh, I'm just gonna watch the game and see what happens at the end and see if I win."
Yeah, good luck on that one.
Truth of the matter is, we sit there and figure out scenarios that are mind boggling and that we have no control over. And then, when we figure them out, it doesn't matter cuz someone kicked a field goal or ran back an interception and the whole dynamic has changed.
Then the quarter ends and you grumble and curse and look at your sheet to see who won and you have no idea who it is because it's a friend of a friend of a cousin of a friend and you hate this person you'll never come close to meeting in your life.
And that my friends, is the American way.
Do we love March Madness because some mid-level team out of North Dakota is running the motion offense to perfection? No! We're loving it because if that team can knock off Duke, you'll get extra points and have a great shot at winning your pool. And when that team loses, forget it. . .tournament is over. The NCAA Tournament is one of the only ones in the country where interest decreases on a mass level as the tournament progresses.
It's not about the games. . .it's about us.
It's all about the pools folks. At least it is when it comes to the masses.
And as I sat in the bar today I laughed and laughed as I watched the people trying to figure out how they could get that number to work at the end of the quarter.
Oh wait, check that.
I would have laughed. . .but I was a little tied up in my own problems, trying to figure out if the Saints could kick a 5-point field goal.
Feb. 4
We'd like to welcome His Honor
Fish4Scores is proud to announce it's newest sponsor today, the honorable Mayor John F. Bencivengo.
We would like to thank the Mayor -- along with three of the township council members who came on board at the start -- for the support. I don't care what political affiliation you are, it should always be nice to know the Mayor of a town -- any town -- has taken his time to support an effort that benefits the athletes of Hamilton Township. That goes for the councilmen as well.
So thanks guys. . .and as always, thank you to all the sponsors who have shown faith in this project during the first four months.
And just so everyone knows, there's always room for more. *wink wink!*
Feb. 1
Heading back to The Trentonian
I know the general public could care less about what I do with my time, but for the coaches and athletes out there who I cover I need to make this little announcement.
For the past 2 years I have been a freelancer for The Times, but starting today I am back to freelancing for The Trentonian (and yes, for a brief stretch I was doing both. . .confusing a few coaches and players along the way).
So anyway, if you see me and Kevin Maloney or me and Ray Clark at the same basketball game, there's a good chance you might not have to make any phone calls to report your scores. And won't that just make your day!
But I'll let you know, just to make sure, since I confused the heck out of poor Chris Raba the other night when I was at the Hamilton-Ewing game for no one but Fish4Scores and Chris let his scorebook disappear into the night thinking he didn't have to call any papers. Sorry Chris!
Jan. 26
Nostalgia page: Good or bad?
In starting the Nostalgia page, which has become a pretty popular item on this website, the idea was to bring back nice, warm memories for yester-year's heroes and to let the younger generation see that their parents weren't really lying about their athletic exploits.
Sometimes, however, it doesn't quite work out.
In a recent item on the 1970 Reynolds Junior High basketball team, it was noted that Pete Larkin scored 14 points for Reynolds but the Raiders lost to Fisher on Fritz Sickles' last second shot.
Pete went on to become one of the greatest point guards in Mercer County history at Steinert, but it's always said that athletes remember the losses more then the wins sometimes.
So I had to ask Pete, amidst all the glory he went on to have, did he remember this seemingly trivial junior high game?
Did he ever.
"I was," Larkin said, "responsible for covering Sickles on that shot."
Ahhh, memories!
Jan. 23
Jan 22, 2010: A date Steinert fans should cherish for a while
Every so often, high schools enjoy a day that goes beyond a kid getting accepted to a good school or a student winning a spelling bee or the science fair, or a team winning a state title.
Don't get me wrong. They are great things and deserve great praise.
But every so often, a unique day occurs in which current fans and long-time alumni can both appreciate.
Steinert had just such a day Friday.
It started in the morning when 1985 graduate Dan Donigan was announced as the new men's soccr coach at Rutgers. While that might not mean a whole lot to kids going to Steinert now, it sure had the alumni buzzing yesterday.
It ended last night, when Dana Jeter became the fifth Spartan girl to ever score 1,000 points. That became the time for the kids to have fun, as the Bleacher Creatures and everyone else gave Jeter her just due after she scored.
Two great moments, one great day. And they spanned the eras.
That's pretty cool. I'm willing to guess even Nottingham and Hamilton folks are impressed. . . .naaaaahhh, what am I crazy!?
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In what has the potential to be a perfect marriage, Donigan is coming home and will try and make the Scarlet Knights a power once more.
Bob Reasso did it for a long time. And in a state like New Jersey, when you put a good college soccer team on the field, the fans will come and so will the media. Having Donigan there will only enhance the whole thing, as he is a Jersey boy just as Reasso was.
Unlike Reasso, Donigan takes over a program that has already succeeded and has a reputation. Reasso built it from pretty much nothing. Donigan plays in a major conference and has a relatively new and great facility to sell to recruits.
Donigan also has a national reputation after what he did at St. Louis. It's going to be exciting up there during the autumns, and not just in Greg Schiano's stadium. I can't wait to see it.
Jan. 21
A player who cares enough to cry
I've covered Rutgers basketball home games as a freelancer for the Associated Press for the past 20 years. There's been a lot of highs and lows during that time, but mostly lows.
Last night, I saw a guy at his lowest. So low it brought him to tears in the middle of an insightful interview. It was nothing I'd ever seen covering basketball at that level, and it made me sad and glad at the same time.
Hamady Ndiaye, Rutgers personable center and the only senior on the team, sat and talked to reporters after the Knights were embarrassed by Villanova. He spoke bluntly and harshly and took his teammates to task for not being tough and for lacking heart.
But at one point, when it was asked if he was as mad as he's ever been after a game, the man they call "H" began to choke up, and tears welled up in his eyes and for a few moments the human quote machine was silenced.
At that moment you could almost tell, this was a guy who has a handful of games left in his senior year and lots of things seem to be going wrong, and it was killing him. It was ripping his heart out because he wants to go out having fun and fighting hard.
So it made me truly sad to see how much it got to him. He's a very likeable guy who, without a doubt, leaves it all out on the court every night. He's a guy you root for and you want to see him be happy.
It also made me glad, that a player could still care so damn much that he would just break down in front of reporters. . .and then actually apologize for it. He was sorry? Cripe, I wanted to hug the guy and tell him it would be all right. Then again, at 6-11, he might've put me through a locker.
The point is, Hamady Ndiaye deserves more in his final months of college basketball. I hope his teammates realize that and start to give it to him.
Jan. 16
It's the simple things that are tough for me
When you are a simpleton, as I am, simple things become difficult.
So, I apologize to LindsAy Usarzewicz for spelling her name with an E in an earlier story on this website.
Her dad Steve put it all in perspective in his e-mail when he wrote "You spell Usarzewicz right but not Lindsay???!!!????"
I chuckled at that observation. I chuckled even more at Steve's adept mixture of question marks and exclamation points, bringing just the right touch of incredulation and confusion that he felt.
So Steve, if you ever need a writing job, there's always a spot for you here at Fsh4Scores. Unless you're one of those guys who like to get paid for your efforts, then you might have to go to another site. :)
But on a serious note, what LindsAy did, can not be dismissed. Seniors have wilted under the pressure of the free throws she made against Hamilton Friday night, but the sophomore made them as if she were finishing up practice. The strings didn't even move.
As my favorite college hoops announcer, Bill Raftery likes to say. . ..."Onions!"
Jan. 11
Kurt Warner vs. Donovan McNabb an interesting parallel
First off, it's official, I suck at blogging. Eighteen days between blogs, that shouldn't even count as blogging. It's more like. . .well, I dunno, but I suck at it.
Anyway, this weekend of football got me to thinking. Remember in 2001, when the Eagles got into their first NFC championship game and they played the reigning Super Bowl champion Rams. Kurt Warner outdueled Donovan McNabb and went to the Super Bowl, but Philadelphia fans weren't too upset.
Afterall, Warner was in his prime, he was going to have his day in the limelight early in the decade but surely the future was McNabb's. He was young and talented and athletic.
Fast forward to now. . . ..and last year.
First, last year. Warner, who we all thought had kind of disappeared from view by mid-decade, not only goes back to the Super Bowl, he does it by beating McNabb. And he does it by leading his team to a late TD that McNabb could not respond to.
Then we have this year. McNabb was absolutely brutal on Saturday, though there are those out there still apologizing for him. A day later, Warner has an absolutely mind-boggling game against the Packers, that is worthy of being called one of the great playoff efforts of all time, especially for a guy his age.
What does all this mean? Maybe nothing. Maybe Warner has just always played for the right coaches and had better people around him.
Or maybe, just maybe, it tells us of the mental make-up of Warner vs. McNabb. A guy whose career seemed over comes back and is just incredible in the playoffs. The other guy well, he just never gets it all the way done, year after year after year.
The feeling here is, if McNabb played hoops, he'd be the classic streak shooter. Knock down the first jumper and he's good for 30. Miss the first couple, and forget about it.
It's been well documented all over Philly that he turns into Donovan McMope when things don't go well. The shoulders sag, you don't see him encouraging any teammates and he drills passes into the ground.
Meanwhile, Kurt Warner, well, he just keeps rolling along. The future that was McNabb's in 2001, still belongs to Warner in 2010.
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Oct. 12
After Nottingham's stunning football win Saturday I thought it would be a long time until I saw such a shocking comeback again.
So of course, on Sunday I watch the Angels down two runs and down to their last strike score three runs to win it and I know it will be forever until I see a comeback like that.
Until 45 minutes ago, when the Phils were down two runs and down to their last strike, and won.
I'm through predicting that I won't see anymore great comebacks, but I'll tell ya one thing. I'm covering a cross country meet Tuesday. Unless a runner ends up winning after trailing by a mile with a mile-and-a-quarter left to go, I probably won't be impressed.
Oct. 10
I've been told I have to blog more. I did this project to be my own boss, but I discover now I have many bosses telling me to blog.
First off, bad news for Steinert athletic director Rich Giallella. He is wasting money on electricity with his field hockey scoreboard. While at the game Friday, I heard no less than five people come up and ask us the score, none of them even coming up with the thought that there very well could be a scoreboard there to look at.
Secondly, as a Phillies fan, it's nice to see the respect my team gets by WTBS. Two afternoon games when everyone's at work, a Saturday night game when everyone's out partying and a Sunday night game when everyone's in bed. Championship has its priveleges. . .but not here.
I haven't heard it discussed yet, but I'm hoping the Harry Kalas factor comes into play in Colorado. Lest we forget, that is where Harry called his final game before passing away. Could that give the Phils a rallying cry? Probably not, but I guess that's the kind of stuff you have to write on these blogs.
Finally, a good friend of mine says Deadliest Catch is one of the best shows on TV. So. . .everyone watch it, even if I don't.
OCT. 3
So, what are the rules? Am I supposed to blog like, every day? If so, this is it for today. Too much other stuff to do.
Hey, this is easier than I thought.
Actually, all three township football teams in action, as well as Shore Coaches Invitational in cross country. I'll be at Hamilton-WWPS, hope to have other scores posted tonight.
OK, done.
OCT. 2
Well, here we are, finally launched and ready to roll.
Welcome to Fish4Scores.com, the newest website, in fact, the first website, dedicated completely to the sports scene in Hamilton Township. In New Jersey. In Mercer County, not the one near Atllantic City.
My name is Rich Fisher and I will be your webmaster, which in itself, is a very scary thought. But I always wanted to say that, so that's outta the way.
This is the first blog I have ever written and when I re-read it, it will be the first blog I ever read. If that's not bad enough, this is my first foray ever into the world of websites, so I can guarantee that you will see some strange things over the next few weeks as I work out the bugs.
But the main thing here is to promote the athletes of Hamilton Township, whether they are in high school, or just starting out in rec sports. I ENCOURAGE ALL YOUTH LEAGUE TEAMS to contact me by e-mail so we can start getting your scores in the paper. This includes soccer, football, whatever.
Unlike newspapers, we've got the space! So let's get the kids names in there.
I have a million people to thank for helping get me started, but I'll leave that for now as you have read enough. I will say, however, I am looking for sponsors to fill in my sponsor boxes, with the cost going right back into making this a better website. Please e-mail if interested.
That's it for now. I just re-read this. Now I know why I don't read blogs. Are they all this bad?
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Feb. 5 2012
Former GAK player
fondly remembers
coach Nick Wiener
Feb. 5: Hamilton Township and Mercer County soccer lost one of the most influential men in their rich history this past week when Nick Wiener passed away at age 73.
The Yardville resident coached German American Kicker teams for over 40 years and was responsible for not only winning championships, but for making better players.
Chris “Buzz” Barlow, a producer for NFL Films, played for Hightstown High School and the University of Pennsylvania, but learned much about the game playing for Nick on the GAK.
Chris was kind enough to share his memories of the legendary coach, which are as follows:
Mercer County lost a great man last Sunday with the passing of Nick Wiener, and the Mercer County soccer community lost a legend.
In the late 80s and early 90s I was fortunate to play for Nick on his German American Kickers team. I had been playing for the GAK youth team for a few years when Nick decided he wanted me to join the men’s team. I don’t remember how that conversation went, but I’m sure it was something like this:
“Chrissy…” (Yes, he called me Chrissy. No one else did but for some reason it didn’t bother me when he did it. Of course, I would come to learn that Pete became Petey, Ed became Eddie, Jim-Jimmy, Dave-Davey, and even Nick’s two sons on our team, Nick and John were Nicky and Johnny). . .
“Chrissy, we have a game Sunday at 2, you’ll be there.” I wasn’t sure if it was a question or a command, and even though I was living in Philadelphia at the time going to school, I made sure I was at the game. I couldn’t say no to Coach Nick, but then again, why would I want to? I would be playing for a coach with a masterful knowledge of the game, and be playing with guys whom I’d admired and emulated for years.
Nick was a coach who trusted his players and treated them like men. He saw no need to run up and down the sidelines yelling (unless he was after an official). And Nick could say just as much with a glance or a look as with a phrase. But either way, he was going to get his point across, and if personnel changes needed to be made, he didn’t hesitate to make them. It was so obvious how much the game meant to him and how much he cared. You couldn’t let him down.
When you played for Nick, you would play anyone, anywhere. And for many years, it seemed like we did--from Farcher’s Grove in Union, (which did not have a blade of grass on it) to Perth Amboy—where we played underneath the Outerbridge Crossing, from Kearny to Newark to East Orange. It seemed like we spent most weekends going up and down the Jersey Turnpike.
But there was nothing like a home game at the GAK club on Uncle Pete’s Road. It was soccer Camelot, and with Nick serving as our King Arthur, we hardly ever lost there. But there was so much more than just the game. After each win we’d be treated to dinner inside the club. We’d replay the game, tell tall tales, and think about the next time we’d be lucky enough to play there.
My most vivid memory of playing for Nick came the year that we made a deep run in the State Cup and found ourselves in the final at Thompson Park in Lincroft. We gave up an early goal and then had a player sent off with a red card, so we had to play the remainder of the game a man down. Nick never panicked though, and because he didn’t, we didn’t. We managed to tie the game and won in penalty kicks.
Eventually, Camelot had to end for me. Real world responsibilities like a job and family took precedent over soccer.
But I’ll never forget what I learned from Nick Wiener and how much fun I had playing for him with GAK.
And I’m sure that right now, Nick is in a perfect place, preparing a side to play a game on the perfect pitch. In my mind, that place looks exactly like GAK, and Nick is standing at midfield ready for kick off.
Rest in peace, Coach Nick.
Jan. 6, 2012
Here’s to those
who never quit
Before getting to the headline item, I just want to wish a Happy Birthday (two days late) to my wonderful mom, Dianne Fisher. Love ya mom! Good luck in your Super Bowl pools. From what you tell me, they can’t get any worse than the regular season!
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I have some new heroes.
They are athletes I’ve come to respect after a couple of years covering high school swimming (which I never did before this website). You will probably never hear of them by the time they graduate.
At least not for their swimming exploits.
My heroes are the boys and girls who will never be listed in the Top 3 when (if) the results are printed in the paper. Heck, even if they printed all top-five place finishers you wouldn’t see them.
They’re the ones who finish dead last.
By a lot.
Believe me, I am not trying to be witty or sarcastic or smart-assy about this.
It’s one thing for a swimmer at the top of their craft to bust a gut trying to break a record, win a race or, in some cases, win a meet. There’s plenty of adrenaline to push them and the crowd is cheering wildly, whether they can hear it or not.
It’s an entirely different matter when the race is over where points are concerned, and there is just one swimmer still in the pool. Everyone is waiting for that person to touch out so they can get on to the next event.
I’m talking mostly about a distance event since that’s where a swimmer can get behind by a really lot.
And some do. It would be sooo easy for them to just say ‘Heck with this’ and climb out of the pool before their last lap. What the heck, whether they finish or not, they still get the same zero points.
But you know what. They don’t do that. They churn and churn and churn, determined not to give up.
They have the pride and the guts and the conviction to see it through. What doesn’t matter one iota in the grand scheme of the meet, matters to them. They’ve done all the work in practice, they’re sure not going to just give up on it when the actual meet takes place.
To me, there’s something darn heroic about that. I admire the heck out of it.
So next time one of you swimmers is dragging along in last place, thinking no one is watching and that no one cares, just know it's enough that you care.
And keep it up.
It will serve you well later in life.
(Feel free to re-read this during track season, as it is applicable then as well).
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How about Jeff Lurie saying Andy Reid isn’t arrogant?
During his silly Tuesday press conference Lurie said the Eagles season was unacceptable. Well Jeff, nothing in the world is more unacceptable then the ludicrous comment that Reid is not arrogant.
All that was left was for Lurie to say "And he's not overweight either, that's just your perception."
Some day I’m gonna find out just what incriminating pictures Reid has of Lurie.
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Of course, there’s arrogance, and then there’s arrogance.
Tony Mack wants more money.
Seriously? I mean. . .seriously?
There weren’t enough LOLs, ROFLs, LMAOs or LMFAOs in the world to describe how hard I laughed when I read that.
And there won’t be enough oceans in the world to hold Trenton residents’ tears if they actually give it to him.
More money?
Seriously?
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So, the Miami (formerly Florida) Marlins got Carlos Zambrano.
Yikes!
As a Phillies fan, I should fear the Marlins with all the moves they have made.
But I can’t wait to watch how that whole situation blows up down there.
With everyone making their (pick one – bold, fearless, outrageous) predictions for 2012, I’ll give you one that I feel pretty good about. That entire Marlins scene will be the second coming of the chaotic Bronx Zoo made popular by Yankees of the late 1970s.
Only the Marlins won’t win back-to-back titles.
Just look at the recipe for disaster they’ve concocted.
First you have Hanley Ramirez, who’s not the most grounded guy to begin with and who is already upset that he has to move to third base so Jose Reyes can take over.
Ah yes, Jose Reyes. We know about him in these parts. For all we know, he may get a leadoff single on opening day then ask to be removed from the lineup that day and ask to be used only as a ninth-inning defensive replacement or pinch-runner in order to become the first guy to ever bat 1.000 while playing 162 games.
Now they add Zambrano to the mix. Here’s a pitcher who hits teammates with more regularity than he hits the corners. What happens when Reyes has a bad day at the plate and dogs it in the field when Zambrano is pitching?
Ding, ding, ding! There's a right to the jaw, and Reyes is down!
One of Zambarno’s most recent fights with a teammate came against the White Sox, and he and Guillen went out to dinner afterward. Guillen calls Zambrano his friend and several articles state he was a major player in getting the pitcher.
Of course, we’ve all seen how stable Ozzie has been over the years. He has had more bleeped out post-game press conferences on Sports Center than, um, well than anybody! Managerial skills aside, Guillen is about as loose a cannon as there is among managers.
This, my friends, is gonna be a wild scene.
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Sticking with Fish’s Hot Stove Blog for a moment, I’m going to set an over-under number for local baseball announcers.
The number is the same for all three of them – 200. What that means is, I think they are going to do/say the following things once each game, and more than once in at least 38 others.
Here we go:
--John Sterling will make non-Yankee fans puke.
--A bad play will be made by either the Mets or their opponent, and Keith Hernandez will groan and say “You just can’t do that” and be sincerely offended when the game isn’t played correctly. He will do that a lot, cuz the game’s not played correctly a lot.
--Chris Wheeler will note that it was very important that the eighth hitter in the lineup got on base with two outs, assuring that the pitcher won’t have to lead off the next inning. I’ve also set the over-under at 300 that Wheels will discuss the importance of two-out hits; the benefits of getting them and the emotional distress of allowing them.
I’ll take the over on all of them.
Moving onto the national scene, I’ll set the over-under at 3 for FOX’s crack team that no one seems to like:
--Joe Buck will make an exciting call.
--Tim McCarver will make an observation without trying to make it sound like it is the most important thing ever uttered in baseball history.
I’ll take the under on both of them. By a lot.
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NFL playoffs baby. Love ‘em!
The next two weekends are awesome. Championship Sunday is good too, but it’s cool to know you have two playoff games on Saturday and Sunday the next two weeks. And besides, Championship Sunday is starting to bug me with the lavish halftime shows that stretch the game out forever, but not quite as long as the Super Bowl.
I'm sure that now I've made my grievance public, the NFL will quickly move to change things.
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Must have been a wild night in Morgantown Wednesday. About 90 minutes after West Virginia’s basketball team torched Rutgers for 85 points, the Mountaineers football team scored a bowl record 70 against Clemson.
Having been to Morgantown before, I’m willing to bet there were more than a few guys (and girls) doing a shot for every point scored by each . . .and nobody passed out.
I actually covered that basketball game and had to laugh at coach Mike Rice, who I think is doing a nice job and will turn things around if given the chance.
Someone asked Rice how far away the win over No. 10 Florida felt after two straight losses. Rice looked at him and said "That's a good question."
Then he had an expression as if he were going to give a well thought out answer, and he just kind of muttered on word: "Far." Sometimes less is better. That pretty much told the tale.
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